Always know that what other people think of you is their own concern, not yours. Do what you know is right, and fully accept that others will think what they will think.
Certainly it is valuable to make a good impression. Keep in mind, though, that the best way to make a good impression is not to worry endlessly about what others think.
The way to make the best impression is to be authentic. Allow the goodness that is within you to shine through your genuine courtesy, kindness, respect and consideration.
By caring so much about receiving validation from others, you prevent yourself from getting it. Instead, share your real value with those around you and that value will be clear for all to see.
Don't waste your time and effort keeping up appearances. Put your attention and energy into real solid substance, and your appearance will take care of itself.
The more you strive to make a good impression, the less successful you'll be at doing so. Just relax and be yourself, and you'll be truly and authentically impressive.
Max,
ReplyDeleteGlad to have you back. And regarding this post, YES, we need to focus on what we can control and change (Hopefully for good!).
Nico
Margarita,
ReplyDeleteOnly one word: EXCELENT!
Luis M
Very nice words, be yourself and life will suddenly become much easier!!! Thanks for sharing these imspiring thoughts.
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